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Domina IRIS(Comeback)

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

I focus on facing the individual.This is how slaves are.

This is the fetish.Not just a one-size-fits-all expression or interpretation.What on earth is "You."?How would "You." react? And what kind of chemical reactions are produced if "You." and "me"?

I place importance on observing them.Human cells are reborn every day, and experience values change. Even today and tomorrow, "You." and "me" are different people. It's very fluid.Because of the chance, when the fluid 'individual' and 'individual' stay at the same point and confront each other through the language of BDSM.The emotions, reactions, changes, and chemical reactions that arise.

A moment that never happens again.It is important for me to face "You who are here now." with insight.

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: basic
  • Snake whip: available
  • English ☆☆☆Advanced /Spanish available
  • Regular Domina

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Domina CATHERINE(Newface)

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

Hello readers, When I was asked this question, it made me think about why I became a mistress in the first place. In short, I seek to enjoy my sessions more than anything else. If it isn’t fun, then what’s the point? I know this sounds quite selfish, but hear me out.

In interpersonal relationships, which I believe includes the relationship between a mistress and her submissive(s), there is always a bit of give and take. In order to have a successful session, both parties must be satisfied to some degree. In theory, I could simply fulfill the desires of the submissive, but that contradicts why I decided to become a mistress. That is why I place my own satisfaction as number one. Of course I have developed my own fetishes and tastes, but I am always open to suggestions from the submissive. Seeing their excitement is also part of my enjoyment.

Trying new things is invigorating and provides a new perspective on BDSM, alternative lifestyle, and daily life. I welcome opportunities to grow from new experiences and fetishes because you never know what might happen. The chance for finding another source of fun and enjoyment should not be turned down. When both the dominant and submissive fulfill their desires, a true connection is created.

Catherine

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: under training
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: under training
  • English: ☆☆☆☆Native
  • Baby Domina

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Domina AMANE(Newface)

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

What I put the most emphasis on in the session. It's a balance between reason and instinct. In other words, I try not to think only in my head.On a daily basis, I use accurate and comprehensible structures, approximate precise expressions, consistent principles, politeness, and using widely accepted theories to form hypotheses ......They're not difficult for me, they're just a way to make the world a better place to live.

It seems to me that a sound theory is very useful for controlling you with my overwhelming force.Punishing you for your bad behavior. Giving you a reward for your delight. I am the mistress.Of course.On the other hand, SM is also a fantasy away from everyday life, so it shouldn't be all logical.Why is this a bad thing? Why is it fun? Why am I the mistress?When I start to think about it, there are so many things that I can't explain.Because in the first place, your masochistic tastes themselves have distorted ideas that are not logically explainable and go against your instincts.

That's why I sometimes turn a blind eye to the contradictions and accept the things I can't explain.

I take whatever weapon I want.You knelt silently and hold out your hands.Funny story.Accepting unreasonable demands a flexible mind that is not bound by common sense and a strong belief in intuition, and SM seems like a process of training them.Even with that thought, the feeling of slaves is strange and mysterious. I made me pick up classic books of psychology. I can't stop wondering why you're contradicting yourself.

Do you all have an ideal dungeon?

What I put the most emphasis on in the session. It's a balance between reason and instinct. In other words, I try not to think only in my head.On a daily basis, I use accurate and comprehensible structures, approximate precise expressions, consistent principles, politeness, and using widely accepted theories to form hypotheses ......They're not difficult for me, they're just a way to make the world a better place to live.

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Before talking about my ideal dungeon, let me tell you about my favorite places. I like to spend time in libraries since I was a child.It is the calm place opened to anybody but is quiet.At the same place but everybody thinks totally different things.When I feel tired for daily obligations, sometimes I go to imaginary world through a fiction story, sometimes I try to find the word to understand myself.In other words, library is a part of my daily life, but it is also a boundary between reality and unreality.

For me, SM has similar nature.How wonderful if there were a place, in the deep behind of such a library, where my secret dreams come true.There are various beautiful libraries in the world and all of them are fascinating as a dungeon.

For example, a magnificent baroque building like you see in films, heavy and strict stone made, and it's hard to forget the university’s library in my school days memories.Anyway, we pass through bookshelves to head to the dungeon in such a beautiful library.Is the dungeon in the basement where we go down a ladder, or behind a hidden door which looks like just a bookshelf or ……

I don’t need so many things in the dungeons we've arrived at.There must be a lot of inspiration in the books that have been through to get there. Why don't you bring a book that stimulate your masochism?

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: under training
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: under training
  • English: ☆☆Intermediate
  • Baby Domina

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Domina NIKKI(Newface)

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

Disclaimer: I'd like to tell you beforehand that this column was written very carefully so it would not be that offensive. Personally, I consider me and the sub's relationship the most crucial element when having a session. The possibilities are endless compared to the very few taboos we have in BDSM ? that is why I put relationship on top of the list. Firstly, from a business-like perspective, me and the sub's relationship within the club is clear. I am the the provider and you are the client. Clients usually tend to put a price on the provider no matter what the their occupation is.

But that is awfully wrong. The price is paid towards the service provided.Just because you are paying it doesn't mean a slave can impose unreasonable complaints or demands, and vice versa. A dominatrix shouldn't be exploiting her power to do whatever she desires. I have never been stuck in such situations, but they are problems worth keeping in all of our minds.The point is, it's important to respect each other, obey the club rules, and play safe while you have a lot of fun.I had the chance to read Domina's blog entry and found some statements that I feel sympathy.

You know, like you subs out there determine if a dominatrix is good enough to trust yourselves to her, we do the same. We can either reject or have fun with you. If you are not here for much BDSM, just turn around and walk away.I'm going to wrap it up right here because I know that I will definitely digress and start ranting.Now, if you have understood my point so far, you will know what to do next. Throw yourself in to my bosom ? my big heart is vast and deep like the sea.Welcome the coming, speed the parting guest.I am always here with open arms. - Nikki

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About BDSM, Are there any books, music, movies and art that you were impressed with?

My idol is Pinhead, the timeless villain from the 80's horror masterpiece, "Hellraiser". Yes, as you can see I'm a horror enthusiast. From gore to romance comedy, supernatural to psycho thriller, or even torture porn and silent films...pretty much anything will fulfill my omnivorous appetite.See if this appetite would be reflected on session if you like. I have a bit a habit.

Anyway, lets get down to business. One of the films that inspired me the most is Hellraiser's Pinhead and his sinister members of Cenobites. There is an interesting and famous fact that The God Hand in the Japanese comic Berserk is based on Cenobites. It is known that the author of the popular ongoing series is a fan of Hellraiser. I encountered Berserk earlier, but I actually had a feeling of deja vu when I first watched Hellraiser. What the Cenobites do...they drag those who seek ultimate pleasure down to hell and inflict extreme pain through all sorts of torture. Beyond such act is a unworldly pleasure. A man's consciousness is guided in to the unknown depths of the mind; perhaps the realm of enlightenment. I probably would not have been that attracted to Hellraiser if it was all sex and carnage. Every year I do a marathon of the series at least twice or thrice, but I have never watched it to observe the sadomasochism presented in the films. Although, if Hellraiser were to be seen as an evangelistic story which transcends morality or good or evil, it certainly does influence my outlook on sadomasochism.I would to share an intriguing article that relates to what I state above: https://www.livescience.com/43502-sadomasochism-mind-alteration.html

According to some studies, the change of one's mind state achieved by the immersion in to acts of SM is similar to that of what is achieved from Yoga or meditation. With consensual acts participants may feel relieved of stress. More interestingly, they are relatively stable and could feel a oneness with others or even the world itself through session. I think such feeling is what I like about SM.

Finally, allow me to go back to Hellraiser.Other the philosophical facets of the piece, one thing is for sure. Bondage-clad Cenobites appearing beneath the spotlight declaring "I am pain" is a great scene. I love that moment. Please be warned that Hellraiser does not contain so much torture (or SM-like acts) as you expect. Try watching it for once. I am beginning to feel like doing a marathon while I write this article. So may I ask, "What's your pleasure, sir?" Nikki

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Do you all have an ideal dungeon?

I have one (or two), but it's pretty unorthodox as usual. For me, I have polar opposite dungeons in my mind. One is an outdoor environment full of life and energy while the other one is a macabre space.Because I'm from a cold country I always dreamt of temperate regions and one of them is the Mediterranean. I thought it's fun to imagine the beautiful white-washed island of Santorini as a dungeon.Don't you think it's great fun to run around the town playing it with a slave and laughing like a madman? The red from the blood should look pretty on the white walls. Since the island faces the water, I could also hang the slave on a cross in the ocean after a lot of whipping. Of course, I need a glass of bubbles in my hand while I watch him suffer.

While the island is full of life, the other dungeon would be a gloomy windowless gothic manor surrounded by a forest.This manor is abandoned and it has a very high ceiling and is furnished with antiques.We don't see this type of mansion, but it's actually modeled off of my house back home and a bit of NYC's Pandora's Box.I could easily imagine torturing a slave on the long table in the dining room where pictures and paintings on the walls stare at you.You walk upon the Persian carpet and through the spacious main hall to open the heavy wooden door that leads you to the torture chamber.

A St. Andrew's cross,cages high up in the air,duchesse bed sturdy enough for suspension,an iron maiden,and mirrors, mirrors, and more mirrors!If the slave escapes, I would certainly go after him.Imagining this ideal dungeon is quite amusing.Although,I can't really express it enough through my scribble. - Nikki

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What is the simplest definition of hardcore?

The simplest definition of hardcore is "the act of driving oneself to the limit". I bring up this kind of topic often, but what hardcore means solely depends on the individual perception, and thus, the answer is in limbo.

For example, if you are clad in bondage and emerging yourself in the BDSM world 24/7, that is hardcore in a way. If you change your instruments and use them in various methods you could shift to hardcore. Although, at the same time, there are people in ordinary fashion in a ordinary living room flinging whips and doing CBT in broad daylight. If you exchange the regular low-temperature candles to Japanese candles, that's hardcore because they will create burns.

Personally, any act of breath control including choking out an individual to unconsciousness (during combat), whipping, and medical are all examples of hardcore. Scat is also deadly and hard. You could possibly die a death that doesn't look good (needs some camouflage on the cause of death) from choking on feces. I also believe driving one to the limit and being a life-time scar is another way of psychological hardcore discipline and control. Pretty difficult if you think about it.

When you are in the BDSM community you will meet extremists. Interestingly, when you flock together you tend to make yourself look bigger to stand out by committing extreme acts. Well, it is a type of exhibition, a fantasy. In reality, most of us don't go that far while we are on our own. They don't have to be the norm and you don't have to compare your acts to theirs. "I don't know what's right." One of the dominas said to me the other day. I thought that the fact that her slave is coming back to her must be an answer, because there is no real limit and right or wrong in this niche world.

All in all, the answer to this theme widely vary. For who are you doing the session for? Are you and your partner satisfied with the current intensity of the session? You may find an answer to what hardcore means if you consider the questions above. - Nikki

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: under training
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: under training
  • English: ☆☆☆Advanced
  • Baby Domina

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Domina FUJIKA

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

The important thing during a session is to keep the opposite feeling in our mind. Some people want to be abused for complete control, or they want to satisfy their desire for strong fetishism, or they want to make the world of fantasy a reality, and so on; there are a lot of forms of BDSM.

Let's say we do something horrible and dirty that I can't describe in words. I want the slave to be aware of the opposite world in order to feel the vice. It might be a good idea to play beautiful classical music, or to look down on you, dressed in elegant, tasteful things, as you wander about. If you want to be completely separated from the existence of man, I think you must first admit the existence of man in yourself. Having a piece of respect in order to look down on you. Acknowledging the existence of the opposite and falling into the opposite world. Because I know you want to be lured into the abyss of desire, don't you?

When I'm in a session, the most resonating thing is when my heart says, we're connected now. I want to know more about you, and I want to connect more deeply. I want to approach the core while exposing each other's kinks. To achieve it, I would like to continue our sessions while acknowledging each other's awareness as human beings, and the conflicting world.

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: under training
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: under training
  • English: ☆☆Intermediate
  • Regular Domina

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Domina JUN

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

The most important thing in my sessions.

It is to wait for the slave's response. I'm impatient. Even when I'm in a conversation, I anticipated the answer and have already prepared. And while I am thinking of the next answer, the conversation becomes nothing but an imaginary creature. Wait, what are we talking about after all? It's a waste of time, like putting the cart before the horse. It's important to think about everything in a logical way, but it's boring if I am stuck with it.

Therefore, I wait for your reaction because I want to see the scenery that I can only see when I get off the rail and off the track. I don't predict anything at all, and I look at you emptying my mind so I would feel genuine disappointment, urge to scold and surprisese. I recognize your body once it has been threw into my daydreaming playground where it have been alone for so long. I am happy to know that the predictions are completely useless.

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: under training
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: under training
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina

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Domina TAMAKI

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

Hello, I'm Tamaki. It's my turn. The theme is 'focus or the important thing in my session.'The important thing in my session is communication and timing. What kind of person is he/she?

I want to start from such place. It's more fun to think "I want to do this with this person." instead of simple "I want to do this".

I would like to take time to build a relationship rather than a quick pleasure. In such a natural atmosphere, slight timing creates tension instantly. I love that moment.

At that moment, shows me very cute faces.

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: standard
  • Snake whip: abailable
  • English: ☆☆Intermediate
  • Regular Domina

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Domina ENA(ruina)

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

Renamed Ruina, it's Ena. I'm a pervert. There are 2 important points in my session: "not subject to ego" and "enjoyment of accidents".

If we are satisfied with each other's desire for pleasure, it is just a pervert game. This is a pervert's party by perverts, for perverts. If so, I think the charm of SM will be lost, right? Therefore, my ego as Domina should not be too one-sided, and you shouldn't be the only one that feels good. I don't want to end up with a harmonious schedule. In the midst of hunger and thirst, and in the midst of each other's bargaining, dominance be born I think?

In front of me, you sharpen your senses in the midst of "I don't know what will happen," and imagine "What's going to happen". Expectation, despair, pleasure, fear,... We want to share the "an unfelt feeling" that can be created under such circumstances.

... BUT ACTUALLY, I WISH I CAN FOLLOW MY INSTINCT AND BECAME A SLAVE OF MY DESIRE, AND BECAME A PERVERT AS IT IS! ... and to face that conflict is what I meant by "not subject to ego."

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: skilled
  • Suspension: skilled
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina

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Domina MISATO

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

It's my turn, read it carefully!What I put the most importance on my sessions is to create a space for sharing our time. Therefore, I don't overlook the slave's every move.

Emotions can be expressed not only from words, but also from fingertips. I'm watching you.

The only important thing is the inspiration. If we could cherish the new world view that comes from the inspiration every day, and share the time that makes us tremble, I would have nothing more to say. Stereotyped BDSM is not too bad, but I need to spice things up!

My favorite thing is to break the boring routine!

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: skilled well
  • Suspension: skilled well
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina

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Domina YOKO

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

It's Yoko. It is now my turn.

The most important thing in my sessions is probably to be greedy. Of course it is for each other. I tend to watch you with my glistening eyes to see the facial expression I want to see, to get the reaction I want, and not to miss it. It will be more fun and pleasurable if you don't feel shy and let yourself go. Since sessions are extraordinary, not your every day activity, I think it is good to want more greedily. There are things you like, things you don't like, and things you can't do, so you are you.

If you can't confess your wishes and desires, I can expose them. Also, the most important thing for me is that you slaves to be healthy. Otherwise, I can't be mean to my heart's content. As for specific plays I put the most importance on, that would the things I enjoy. To defile or deprive of your dignity; such as vomiting play and lots of golden shower, but I will talk more about them on my blog.

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: basic
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina

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Domina ROCA

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

What I focus most on during the session is to look at all of you in front of me.

Looking inside your heart and listening to the words that you can't speak. Some are with complicated feelings. I want to see your thoughts and your world. I want to share it all with you. And I want to dye you in my hue gradually. I'm feeling that way. I also place great importance on creating a space where our thoughts go in the same direction. Time flies when you're happy, excited, and immersed. Like time and space are distorted. It is a fulfilling space.

I want to face each other and connect deeply. Let's aim for heights together.

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: basic
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina

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Domina SAKURAKO

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

How are you enjoying the Relay Column? It's Sakurako, I've been looking forward to my turn! The theme is 'the most emphasis or importance I place in sessions.' I think there are many important points for us to have a good session as we meet only as S and M. One of the most important thing for me is 'balance between satisfaction and dissatisfaction'. Of course it's not good to have so much dissatisfaction, but don't be too satisfied.

I think a little bit of bargaining will be a spice when we come to each other, hiding nothing. The feeling of control when you grasp all of your wishes, and toy with your feelings at my will. Your gasping when you are given the supreme pleasure as a reward for your hard work, and your most pitiful expression when your expectations are betrayed. I'm sure it's the same for you and me to do BDSM for such a consuming moment. My ideal BDSM should have a 7: 3 balance. Of course, it may change depending on the slave, my mood and the situation. What is your ideal balance? It might be fun to try and find out through various plays with me, right?

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: basic
  • Suspension: under training
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina (decline to be Tiara)

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Domina TOHKA

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

"The thing that I put the most effort". What is it? Why did I become like this in the first place?

I was planning to do everything I could here, and then leave. Is it because I can't do "not seeing anything", "not listening to anything" or "not feeling anything" forever when I'm here? Or is it because now I'm utterly afraid to return to the darkness in which you kept giving up on people? It's gonna be a long story, going back to my roots. Oh, how many characters does this column have? Let's summarize the conclusion briefly.

1) How much "I-want-to-do-this" which is generated by the partner can I do? 2) "How much can I enjoy with the partner" as I continue to raise the issues? These are the two important points in my sessions. HERE YOU GO!

Domina TOHKA column

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: standard
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Regular Domina (decline to be Tiara)

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Domina NARUMI

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

I, domina Narumi will deliver it. It's a little different from putting a lot of effort into it, but what I value most in sessions is to enjoy the playing.

I love BDSM so I don't need to try to enjoy it, but I always have fun from the bottom of my heart. I'm so greedy that I want to have more fun. I mean, I know you slaves get more excited when you see my eyes shining and my cheeks blushing in excitement. It is only in the depth of my heart that I have to express and taste all your feelings in order to be so exalted.

I like the way you enjoy melting with my sweet tricks. But I also like the way you look so cute when you are tormented so hard that your face is distorted and the eyes are watery. I cannot be satisfied unless you show me everything about you. So I will enjoy using all of you. I always have a session thinking like that. Narumi

Domina NARUMI column

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: standard
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Tiara Domina

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Domina RUIKO

My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

This column is interesting because I can see the ideas of each dominas. I enjoyed reading the columns.

My "focus or the important thing in my session" is to create a moment when I can touch the slave's core. Pain, pleasure, fear, whatever I may use, I am happy when the slave stops acting, his/her shell comes off, and looks straight back at me. It's a shame to be involved only on the surface. I think BDSM is a very effective way to remove the shell. I also have a desire to touch the core and then engrave me there.

I want to make my place right in the center of the core, and continue to control it.

Domina RUIKO column

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: standard
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  ✩✩Intermediate
  • Tiara Domina

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My Favorite

What do you focus or value most in your session?

The most important point in my session is that I would like to build a long-lasting relationship.

Above all, I think that BDSM would be more enjoyable if we can build a lasting relationship. The more sessions we have, the more I can understand the slave, the more I can blame you, heal you, and I can torture him more deeply. By doing so, you can release yourself and your mind, let go of your body and ego. I would use every possible means to torment you, to make a fuss, and to give you my heart's content. I think that because of the continuous rule, slaves can gradually enter into the extraordinary and fall deeply. Even when you are not in a session, I am glad if you could keep mistress Shinju in your "memory" for years. Through a lasting relationship, a slave's mind and body could keep the joy of being dominated. Because it is BDSM, it is femdom. I want to appreciate our fate.

During the session, I also value the, "sensation", and "feeling" with the slave, who is confronting me at the time. A slave who I meet for the first time, and a slave who I have known for a long time, will have different mental condition and physical condition every day. I want to sharpen my five and six senses and play with you. I want to play with you in my hand, like Shaka's palm. My wholehearted control to you. Shinju

Domina SHINJU column

SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: skilled well
  • Suspension: skilled well
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Excellent Domina

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Domina AKIHO(On vacation)

My Favorite

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: skilled
  • Suspension: skilled
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  ✩✩Intermediate
  • Tiara Domina

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Domina AYATSUKI(On vacation)

My Favorite

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SKILLS

  • Rope Bondage: standard
  • Suspension: standard
  • Snake whip: available
  • Englis:  Beginner
  • Tiara Domina



English Proficiency::::☆☆☆:Advanced |☆☆:Intermediate |☆Elementary:"Skilled enough to conduct a session" | No star:"Beginner":"Basically speak Japanese in the session"