Welcome to LA SIORA - One of the most prestigious BDSM clubs located in Shinjuku, Tokyo.
Dear our loyal members
"I want to do BDSM so badly,"
"I wonder how are Mr. X doing?"
These days, we often hear such voices among Domina. The frustration of not being able to fly freely is the same for us.
Once again, I really appreciate the peaceful days we had. We would love to brighten up your downward-looking heart a little.
And we want to overcome this hardship together. With our wishes, we made it as easy as possible for you to participate in it. If you're feeling depressed, come over here.
See you in the virtual space. I hope things will be under control and that everyone is safe. We send our heartfelt thanks and encouragement to you, medical professionals.
All of us, Dominasm, Rie Asagiri
Now in preparation, Scheduled to start around Mid - May.
Notification for you regarding COVID-19
In order to cope with COVID-19
1) Please understand that dominas will wear face mask to visit you.
2) On the day of your reservation, please have your temperature checked before going out.
3) Please cooperate to check your temperature before the session. Please leave the timing to Domina.
4) Please understand the following flow. Entering the hotel room → Ventilation → Payment → Handwashing and gargling
5) Dominas and our staff are always doing our best to take care of our physical condition, however, due to the current situation, we will not overreach when we are not feeling well. Please understand that in the unlikely event of a sudden holiday.
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/Those who have traveled to Japan within 14 days.
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The name LA SIORA was derived from ...
February 1997. The interval between winter and spring, I was in "Venezia",City of Water.
February 1997. In the season between winter and spring,
I was in Venice, Italy. The city of water. In a hotel in Venice. It's winter, but I woke up sweaty. Two other people in my room, domina "R"and slave "Dog," were asleep. I told the dog to keep the window open, but he must have forgot. Darkness was in front of me when I opened the window. As my eyes got used to the darkness, I could somehow see the silhouette of a church, river, and reflections of the light, all in silence. It was 2 o'clock in the evening.
As I tried to sleep again, I heard a knock on the door. This late? I opened the door with a doubt in my head. No one was in there. After the same thing repeated several times, I decided to stay and guard at the door.The moment I heard the knock, I opened the door and came into the long corridor with red carpet. I did the same thing a couple of times. But still, no one was out there.
I was fully awake by then. There was no place the suspect can hide in the corridor. The dog started to growl in sweat. At the same time, R woke up.
"Hey R, did the dog wake you up? He's been annoying."
R was sitting on the bed, said nothing. She fell back asleep. All of a sudden, the air in the room became dark. There were voices coming out of the wall, and a couple, a man and a woman, emerged. The lady dressed in a princess-line dress, holding a fan in her hand. The man was in a jacket and hat, both are made with the same woven patterned fabric. They looked at each other, smiling, and walked out to the wall on the other side of the room. They were graceful, I did not feel any fear.
Once they are gone, the air became heavy. The next guest wore a white mask and a deep red cape. He/she looked like a picture from a postcard of a Carnaval. The person walked slowly, and gone to the wall on the other side. When he/she is gone, I heard a subtle sound. It became louder and louder, so I could hear it clearly.
"...shora...siora, La Siora"
I wrote down the word. The day breaks without a sleep.
I was visiting Venice to see my friend named "M." In the next morning, he picked us up to take us to show us around. I asked him if he knows the word "La Siora."
"La Siora? How come you know the word? Only few Italians know the word, it's not even on a dictionary."
I was surprised to know the word actually exists, and told M all about the previous night. According to him, many people experience mysterious things in Venice.
"Congratulations, Rie! That's wonderful! Venice gave you a guarantee that you are a true queen!"
"It's an old word in Venice, which was used to address a lady reverentially. In English, it's like "The Mistress."
I accepted the word with a gratefulness. I was on to a travel as I couldn't come up with a good name for a new club I was producing.
A gift from ancient Venice, and a timeless word. "La Siora."
~ La Siora ～
What do you focus or value most in your session?
Relay column by Dominas
Let's ask what domina (mistress) is focusing on and how important it is as we, dominas, develop relationships with you (slaves)?
Let's start a new playground "relay column". When you are reading interviews, there are usually about plays she likes and doesn't like, right? But I think the reason why people are attracted to each other is more than love and dislike of playing, but there are also cases where people are attracted to each other because they have different values or they don't understand each other.
Let's ask what domina (mistress) is focusing on and how important it is as we, dominas, develop relationships with you (slaves).
"What do you focus or value most in your session?"
What I emphasize is that I don't make assumptions about them. I don't assume what kind of person they are, I don't assume what they can do or what their limiters are. At the same time, I don't set my own limits. It is nice to enjoy ourselves within a limited framework, but I also want to manifest our uncontrollable urges, desires and feelings.
Ideally, the session should be about our own pleasure, and we should be naturally led to the happiness of letting go of the ego. I want to show my sadism without hesitation and I want you to show your masochism as well. That's what I mean when I say I enjoy BDSM; I want to dive into the vortex of bubbling excitement that it gives me. I'm sure you want it too.
One of my favorite artists said "an artist is not a man of love; he must be love itself. And the price you have to pay for it is immeasurable." Things that can only be done, felt, and communicated physically. Those are not something superficial, but something deep. I'd be happy if we could see the scenery together.
Balance is the the most important thing I focus on and emphasize in my sessions.
Strictness and mercy, craving and pleasure, politeness and cutting loose, you and me... there are many things but not all 50:50 when it comes to balance.
The amount is up to me. There may be clashes, but we will find and build our balance.
I put an importance on the process the masochist and I interact on the verge of overflowing the immorality-laden desire swirling within. The air, the breath, the expression, the voice that comes from the time we share. I love it when I feel it on my skin.
The curious desire that tickles the pit of my stomach and bubbles up, catches the masochist in front of me with its gaze, and makes me want to eat it slowly and carefully. The "love that is both a poison and a medicine" that I was somewhat afraid of, and which I didn't have when I was 20 years old; it is comfortable to be next to it.
The world that you can see in the future can be different when there is comfort in the various mixed sensations you feel in your brain. I attend the sessions so that we can communicate with each other, even if it is an unknowable pleasure, We live in a time when viral infections are spreading and our minds and bodies tend to be weakened by various influences.
Please put your health first and support each other to live a healthy life with BDSM.
Hello readers, When I was asked this question, it made me think about why I became a mistress in the first place. In short, I seek to enjoy my sessions more than anything else. If it isn’t fun, then what’s the point? I know this sounds quite selfish, but hear me out.
In interpersonal relationships, which I believe includes the relationship between a mistress and her submissive(s), there is always a bit of give and take. In order to have a successful session, both parties must be satisfied to some degree. In theory, I could simply fulfill the desires of the submissive, but that contradicts why I decided to become a mistress. That is why I place my own satisfaction as number one. Of course I have developed my own fetishes and tastes, but I am always open to suggestions from the submissive. Seeing their excitement is also part of my enjoyment.
Trying new things is invigorating and provides a new perspective on BDSM, alternative lifestyle, and daily life. I welcome opportunities to grow from new experiences and fetishes because you never know what might happen. The chance for finding another source of fun and enjoyment should not be turned down. When both the dominant and submissive fulfill their desires, a true connection is created.
I focus on facing the individual.This is how slaves are.
This is the fetish.Not just a one-size-fits-all expression or interpretation.What on earth is "You."?How would "You." react? And what kind of chemical reactions are produced if "You." and "me"?
I place importance on observing them.Human cells are reborn every day, and experience values change. Even today and tomorrow, "You." and "me" are different people. It's very fluid.Because of the chance, when the fluid 'individual' and 'individual' stay at the same point and confront each other through the language of BDSM.The emotions, reactions, changes, and chemical reactions that arise.
A moment that never happens again.It is important for me to face "You who are here now." with insight.
What I put the most emphasis on in the session. It's a balance between reason and instinct. In other words, I try not to think only in my head.On a daily basis, I use accurate and comprehensible structures, approximate precise expressions, consistent principles, politeness, and using widely accepted theories to form hypotheses ......They're not difficult for me, they're just a way to make the world a better place to live.
It seems to me that a sound theory is very useful for controlling you with my overwhelming force.Punishing you for your bad behavior. Giving you a reward for your delight. I am the mistress.Of course.On the other hand, SM is also a fantasy away from everyday life, so it shouldn't be all logical.Why is this a bad thing? Why is it fun? Why am I the mistress?When I start to think about it, there are so many things that I can't explain.Because in the first place, your masochistic tastes themselves have distorted ideas that are not logically explainable and go against your instincts.
That's why I sometimes turn a blind eye to the contradictions and accept the things I can't explain.
I take whatever weapon I want.You knelt silently and hold out your hands.Funny story.Accepting unreasonable demands a flexible mind that is not bound by common sense and a strong belief in intuition, and SM seems like a process of training them.Even with that thought, the feeling of slaves is strange and mysterious. I made me pick up classic books of psychology. I can't stop wondering why you're contradicting yourself.
The most important thing in my sessions.
It is to wait for the slave's response. I'm impatient. Even when I'm in a conversation, I anticipated the answer and have already prepared. And while I am thinking of the next answer, the conversation becomes nothing but an imaginary creature. Wait, what are we talking about after all? It's a waste of time, like putting the cart before the horse. It's important to think about everything in a logical way, but it's boring if I am stuck with it.
Therefore, I wait for your reaction because I want to see the scenery that I can only see when I get off the rail and off the track. I don't predict anything at all, and I look at you emptying my mind so I would feel genuine disappointment, urge to scold and surprisese. I recognize your body once it has been threw into my daydreaming playground where it have been alone for so long. I am happy to know that the predictions are completely useless.
The important thing during a session is to keep the opposite feeling in our mind. Some people want to be abused for complete control, or they want to satisfy their desire for strong fetishism, or they want to make the world of fantasy a reality, and so on; there are a lot of forms of BDSM.
Let's say we do something horrible and dirty that I can't describe in words. I want the slave to be aware of the opposite world in order to feel the vice. It might be a good idea to play beautiful classical music, or to look down on you, dressed in elegant, tasteful things, as you wander about. If you want to be completely separated from the existence of man, I think you must first admit the existence of man in yourself. Having a piece of respect in order to look down on you. Acknowledging the existence of the opposite and falling into the opposite world. Because I know you want to be lured into the abyss of desire, don't you?
When I'm in a session, the most resonating thing is when my heart says, we're connected now. I want to know more about you, and I want to connect more deeply. I want to approach the core while exposing each other's kinks. To achieve it, I would like to continue our sessions while acknowledging each other's awareness as human beings, and the conflicting world.
It's my turn, read it carefully!What I put the most importance on my sessions is to create a space for sharing our time. Therefore, I don't overlook the slave's every move.
Emotions can be expressed not only from words, but also from fingertips. I'm watching you.
The only important thing is the inspiration. If we could cherish the new world view that comes from the inspiration every day, and share the time that makes us tremble, I would have nothing more to say. Stereotyped BDSM is not too bad, but I need to spice things up!
My favorite thing is to break the boring routine!
Renamed Ruina, it's Ena. I'm a pervert. There are 2 important points in my session: "not subject to ego" and "enjoyment of accidents".
If we are satisfied with each other's desire for pleasure, it is just a pervert game. This is a pervert's party by perverts, for perverts. If so, I think the charm of SM will be lost, right? Therefore, my ego as Domina should not be too one-sided, and you shouldn't be the only one that feels good. I don't want to end up with a harmonious schedule. In the midst of hunger and thirst, and in the midst of each other's bargaining, dominance be born I think?
In front of me, you sharpen your senses in the midst of "I don't know what will happen," and imagine "What's going to happen". Expectation, despair, pleasure, fear,... We want to share the "an unfelt feeling" that can be created under such circumstances.
... BUT ACTUALLY, I WISH I CAN FOLLOW MY INSTINCT AND BECAME A SLAVE OF MY DESIRE, AND BECAME A PERVERT AS IT IS! ... and to face that conflict is what I meant by "not subject to ego."
It's Yoko. It is now my turn.
The most important thing in my sessions is probably to be greedy. Of course it is for each other. I tend to watch you with my glistening eyes to see the facial expression I want to see, to get the reaction I want, and not to miss it. It will be more fun and pleasurable if you don't feel shy and let yourself go. Since sessions are extraordinary, not your every day activity, I think it is good to want more greedily. There are things you like, things you don't like, and things you can't do, so you are you.
If you can't confess your wishes and desires, I can expose them. Also, the most important thing for me is that you slaves to be healthy. Otherwise, I can't be mean to my heart's content. As for specific plays I put the most importance on, that would the things I enjoy. To defile or deprive of your dignity; such as vomiting play and lots of golden shower, but I will talk more about them on my blog.
How are you enjoying the Relay Column? It's Sakurako, I've been looking forward to my turn! The theme is 'the most emphasis or importance I place in sessions.' I think there are many important points for us to have a good session as we meet only as S and M. One of the most important thing for me is 'balance between satisfaction and dissatisfaction'. Of course it's not good to have so much dissatisfaction, but don't be too satisfied.
I think a little bit of bargaining will be a spice when we come to each other, hiding nothing. The feeling of control when you grasp all of your wishes, and toy with your feelings at my will. Your gasping when you are given the supreme pleasure as a reward for your hard work, and your most pitiful expression when your expectations are betrayed. I'm sure it's the same for you and me to do BDSM for such a consuming moment. My ideal BDSM should have a 7: 3 balance. Of course, it may change depending on the slave, my mood and the situation. What is your ideal balance? It might be fun to try and find out through various plays with me, right?
I, domina Narumi will deliver it. It's a little different from putting a lot of effort into it, but what I value most in sessions is to enjoy the playing.
I love BDSM so I don't need to try to enjoy it, but I always have fun from the bottom of my heart. I'm so greedy that I want to have more fun. I mean, I know you slaves get more excited when you see my eyes shining and my cheeks blushing in excitement. It is only in the depth of my heart that I have to express and taste all your feelings in order to be so exalted.
I like the way you enjoy melting with my sweet tricks. But I also like the way you look so cute when you are tormented so hard that your face is distorted and the eyes are watery. I cannot be satisfied unless you show me everything about you. So I will enjoy using all of you. I always have a session thinking like that. Narumi
What I focus most on during the session is to look at all of you in front of me.
Looking inside your heart and listening to the words that you can't speak. Some are with complicated feelings. I want to see your thoughts and your world. I want to share it all with you. And I want to dye you in my hue gradually. I'm feeling that way. I also place great importance on creating a space where our thoughts go in the same direction. Time flies when you're happy, excited, and immersed. Like time and space are distorted. It is a fulfilling space.
I want to face each other and connect deeply. Let's aim for heights together.
The most important point in my session is that I would like to build a long-lasting relationship.
Above all, I think that BDSM would be more enjoyable if we can build a lasting relationship. The more sessions we have, the more I can understand the slave, the more I can blame you, heal you, and I can torture him more deeply. By doing so, you can release yourself and your mind, let go of your body and ego. I would use every possible means to torment you, to make a fuss, and to give you my heart's content. I think that because of the continuous rule, slaves can gradually enter into the extraordinary and fall deeply. Even when you are not in a session, I am glad if you could keep mistress Shinju in your "memory" for years. Through a lasting relationship, a slave's mind and body could keep the joy of being dominated. Because it is BDSM, it is femdom. I want to appreciate our fate.
During the session, I also value the, "sensation", and "feeling" with the slave, who is confronting me at the time. A slave who I meet for the first time, and a slave who I have known for a long time, will have different mental condition and physical condition every day. I want to sharpen my five and six senses and play with you. I want to play with you in my hand, like Shaka's palm. My wholehearted control to you. - Shinju
"The thing that I put the most effort". What is it? Why did I become like this in the first place?
I was planning to do everything I could here, and then leave. Is it because I can't do "not seeing anything", "not listening to anything" or "not feeling anything" forever when I'm here? Or is it because now I'm utterly afraid to return to the darkness in which you kept giving up on people? It's gonna be a long story, going back to my roots. Oh, how many characters does this column have? Let's summarize the conclusion briefly.
1) How much "I-want-to-do-this" which is generated by the partner can I do? 2) "How much can I enjoy with the partner" as I continue to raise the issues?These are the two important points in my sessions. HERE YOU GO!
Hello, I'm Tamaki. It's my turn. The theme is 'focus or the important thing in my session.' The important thing in my session is communication and timing. What kind of person is he/she?
I want to start from such place. It's more fun to think "I want to do this with this person." instead of simple "I want to do this". I would like to take time to build a relationship rather than a quick pleasure. In such a natural atmosphere, slight timing creates tension instantly. I love that moment. At that moment, shows me very cute faces.(English:☆☆Intermediate)
This column is interesting because I can see the ideas of each dominas. I enjoyed reading the columns.
My "focus or the important thing in my session" is to create a moment when I can touch the slave's core. Pain, pleasure, fear, whatever I may use, I am happy when the slave stops acting, his/her shell comes off, and looks straight back at me. It's a shame to be involved only on the surface. I think BDSM is a very effective way to remove the shell. I also have a desire to touch the core and then engrave me there.
I want to make my place right in the center of the core, and continue to control it.(English:☆☆Intermediate)